The graveyard

Last year, I visited a really ancient church near the ruins of Bramber castle (in England).

It never ceases to amaze me how people built churches with their bare hands as a stone monument to their faith and determination.

The old grave stones stick out of the ground like crooked giant’s teeth.

There is a sense of peace and history as you walk around the church.

We meet a fox and he stops, looking at us for several minutes without moving – as if trying to communicate something.

When he moves off, we continue our walk.

I wonder why so many of us like graveyards?

Is it because they remind us to feel thankful that we are still so alive?

Or is it the sense of lives lived that we find soothing – and the reminder, perhaps,

That a life lived well and with kindness is long enough.

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65 thoughts on “The graveyard

  1. I’m with you about graveyards…….they are so peaceful. I think too that they are places that we know we will be at some point and this realization is like ‘making peace’ with our existence.
    These are lovely shots, especially being there when the fox was.
    I can’t imagine a structure still being intact after such a long period of time….amazing!
    Jim

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  2. I like to visit churches, for the sake of art and architecture, but don’t like graveyards much 😦
    just because, well, they make it too obvious that you’re going to die.

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  3. The fox looks good, and in good condition too.
    Personally I’m neutral about graveyards.
    Great photos. Interesting post.

    All the best, Boonie

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  4. Being American, when I visit England it totally blows my mind to think how old everything is. I never cared for history when in school, but now I’m more intrigued with it.

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  5. Great shots, Like the church and the Fox.
    Graveyards to me makes me wonder what sort of folk they were and how they lived their life.

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  6. I have wondered the same thing, what is it that attracts me to a graveyard..it seems a bit morbid, but I find a sense of peace there…looking at all those headstones and knowing those people were once loved, lived exciting lives or just regular lives like you and me…they had children and grandchildren…or they had no one…but they had a life…a story…and it is in that graveyard I stand that they have been laid to rest for eternity…it does something to you to be surrounded by so much history in one place…

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  7. I really like these shots. Graveyards are peaceful places I think – places where there is an element of old-fashioned respect. I find the graveyards at Imber in the middle of Salisbury Plain to be especially poignant as relatives can only pay their respects when the military opens the village a couple of times a year.

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  8. What amazes me, when we’re traveling in Europe and we go to a cathedral and read the history of it…it generally took 200 to 400 years to build…I can’t even imagine being a craftsman, working on a project that I will never see completed, or perhaps never saw it begun either…it boggles my mind.

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  9. that is gorgeous stone work on the church…wonder if it has to do with old testament alters made to remember moments, hmm…graveyards do entrance me…it is the peace i find there honestly…a final resting…and memories carved in stone…

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  10. I love imaging the lives people lived and wondering about them. And it reminds me to be grateful for the time I have here “on this mortal coil” as Mo says. It is fleeting but beautiful. Love the Fox!!!

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  11. I always liked visiting graveyards to read about people’s lives and ancestry… Always a little saddened when you see someone that left early on, and then you remember the people you miss too… Thanks for sharing! The fox is beautiful!

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  12. I know you love (or would love) Tuscany….full of history, beautiful buildings…and people really respect their heritage, traditions…
    Your pics are great as always…
    Have a good week!

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  13. Beautiful images – amazing that it’s been standing there since 1073! I enjoy visiting cemeteries myself, I think because of the connection to those who went before me.

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  14. I love graveyards too. history takes a rest there. what’ amazing to me are the dates. 1073? I’m accustomed to seeing buildings dated around 1850 perhaps at the earliest. And I’m truly awed by your getting a photo of the fox. I’ve seen them but they’ve never ever stopped for me and stood still, waiting. that’s remarkable.

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  15. I don’t like going to the grave of my husband. I know I should but it makes me sad and lonely. Amazing how old this church is. Still it’s a beautiful building. Thanks for visiting. Have a great week!

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  16. I like when churches have graveyards inside their compoond. I like visiting those graveyards. Other graveyards give me the creeps, which it shouldn’t. Coz they are peaceful places.

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  17. Wonderful pictures!
    There is something about graveyards that I find very peaceful!
    Recently my husband and I wen to a little town to visit and we took a walk and came upon a graveyard and I walked through it for a few hours just reading about the people that “live” there now.
    I wanted to know about the people how long they lived on earth.
    There was a young boy that died last year when he was only 4 and i felt so sad that it life was so short!

    Oh, love the fox!

    Margie 🙂

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  18. Oh .. I just love the fox!! He is so bright. I think foxes are very attractive animals and you almost never see them.

    I do think graveyards with personality (like the one you photographed) are attractive because of their peaceful air, their sense of mystery and the fact that it makes you feel both mortal and immortal. I hate when they are not cared for or have no personality. Too many around here are just sandwiched on highways and between strip malls — it is unseemly and feels so disrepectful.

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  19. I’m also amazed with ancient people’s way of work building church stone by stone. The place is calm and peaceful offering the deceased of generations quiet sleep. I wonder what fox had in he/she mind when he/she exchanged looks with you.

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  20. I think it is partly because sometimes you get to read something on a gravestone that brings the people alive – not just a name and date, but a description of what they meant to those left behind, sometimes even a determination to continue the work they began. Regardless of our own beliefs, there is a sort of immortality conferred by those moments.

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  21. Hi there – great set of pictures. The things that amazes me if that communities had enough time to build these huge religious buildings. Sure people did not have a lot to eat, but to be able to divert all that time away from farming – and still not die of starvation! – means that there must have been some form of surplus labour or food. Thats not the picture I got from school room history.
    Cheers – Stewart M – Australia

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  22. Very nice shots!
    Don’t like very much visiting graveyards but this one is very interesting and if I was sure to meet such a beautiful fox I surely would visit my village graveyard!

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  23. Graveyards are so peaceful and relaxing…just sauntering around looking at the age old history all over the monuments plus the vegetation and sounds and light…so many factors. I lived near a cemetery while growing up which was on a hill with many, many trees..I loved going there…I felt like I was in a cocoon.

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  24. Perhaps when we visit graveyards we feel we are granting a bit of immortality to those who have gone before and hope someone will come after we are gone to acknowledge us.

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  25. Beautiful post. I have come to realize I love graveyards for the reminder that life will go on and that life remembers life. The continuity stretches into the past as well as the present.

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  26. I love those photos and the one with the fox seems to fit the mood.
    I think (apart from the lovely architecture and the beauty of the grave stones) there is the fascination of all the people who have gone before and the knowledge that we will one day be part of history. A bit spooky when you think about it. Makes you think of your own mortality.
    Maggie X

    Nuts in May

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  27. I like to wander in the graveyards, I would love to walk among these old stones and read the names out loud. I wonder if anyone hears..I like the peacefullness and the quiet comfortable silence. That Fox seems to like it there too:)

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  28. I enjoyed your photos here Fi. Grave yards are interesting places for me too. That church looked great! That fox seemed friendly enough too. We don’t have native wild animals here in NZ. Only birds and small lizards. – Dave

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  29. Always nice to say hello to Brer Fox–your post reminded me somehow of the Fox Koan, wherein the fox is a reincarnated spirit seeking release.

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  30. Oh, how I have enjoyed this post!! Loved every photo and your words!!
    I didn’t like graveyards when I was young. Modern graveyards I don’t like so much. But a historic one – I can walk for hours reading all the head stones., wondering about the people times… the people…

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